This dildo is soft and flexible yet hard enough for penetration. Soft Touch is a unique blend of softness and useable stiffness. The head is sculpted nicely to resemble the real thing, and the shaft has exaggerated veins and ridges for increased stimulation. These veins and ridges result in more stimulation than a smooth shafted dildo. In addition to these features Soft Touch also has a flexible shaft which can be bent into different positions and even holds it's shape! It's a nice feature that many people enjoy, were positive you'll love it.